Saving Skin


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There are soooo many stylish and cute outfits/trends in stores right now. From low rise, to wraps, chokers, to rocking sports bras under overalls, off the shoulders, you name it! It's in style and it's super cute!
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However, is this what God wants me to wear? He said in His Word to be "in the world not of it" but am I being of the world by following fashion trends? I am having a common dilemma I assumed most young Christians are battling with also. Although these fashions and styles are cute, I've made a decision to not follow the world's trends the day I declared myself a Christian. As I get closer to God, I started to understand what He is for and against. Reading His Word about how a woman should behave and submit under her husband really had me thinking. I want to be someone's wife one day but right now, I'm just a woman. I understand why other cultures require their women to cover up in a way. Therefore, I decided to "save skin" which means I will choose not to partake in any clothing activity involving the trends of showing off skin. I am choosing to "save skin" for my husband. I feel like he should be the only one to see those parts of my body; it is something intimate and intriguing for men so I don't want to tempt them as well as look/be of the world by flaunting my sexuality. I think a lot of people would disagree and this is bait for great discussions. However, this is a personal lifestyle and goal I am choosing FOR MYSELF... somewhat led by God. This summer is going to be a challenge for me when I do go out into public and into the sun but in the comfort of my own home when it's just me, myself, and I, I will wear what I want. I am currently researching and looking into styles like Bermuda shorts, gotcho pants, etc. that are still in style but do not cause too much skin to be shown. I think that in the end when I am with my husband and able to bare all how WE BOTH want to, I will be happy with my decision. But until then, the struggle is REAL! But I believe God is leading me into more covered and less worldly mindsets, fashion trends, and lifestyle. I'm deciding to Save Skin...

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