Single for LYfe
Growing up and not being in relationships as my peers made me question myself, "what is wrong with me that would make no one look to date me?" I found that some females, mostly the ones that are single for a long time, are asking themselves this same question. Wanna know the answer? NOTHING! Nothing is wrong with you. Being single means you take the time to relearn yourself, spend time with yourself, and fall in love with yourself all over again. Being in relationships cause you to forget that you are an individual. Sometimes it causes you to forget to do things that make yourself happy. I find myself in a difficult position when my girl friends complain about not being in a relationship. I tell them all the same thing "Focus on yourself and the right one will just come when you aren't paying attention". That may be true but from a spiritual standpoint, you must focus on GOD first, build your spirit man up, and GOD will send you the right one. Even I had to